From: "William Hennes" <williamhennes-AT-charter.net> To: <puptcrit-AT-lists.driftline.org> Date: Fri, 22 Dec 2006 09:56:41 -0800 Subject: Re: [Puptcrit] Email misunderstandings on Puptcrit? I for one love Mathieu's review of the DVD in question, is was detailed and balanced. I appreciate the "directness" of the comments and I would hope other art professionals would as well. After all, I think most of us look for reviews on products we buy or are thinking about using. On the other hand, Mathieu, I would offer up to you that when one does offer a critism, there will be those individuals that will debate the point with you. You need to be ready to listen to what they are saying and take a moment to reflect on it. I think you might find they are just verbally disagreeing with your position and that there is nothing more to it. (No need to defend yourself further, you have already supported your point). So, I have found a "Thank you for your thoughts and I will think about that." usally surfices and neaturalizes any possibilities of a debate at that point. Plus it makes the person, in most cases, feel they have been heard. It is at this point that if they keep on "pushing" the point, they are looking for a debate or an argument on the subject. Then you just have to decide at that point if you want to engage the person in an argument or withdraw. Just my 2cents, William _______________________________________________ List address: puptcrit-AT-lists.driftline.org Admin interface: http://lists.driftline.org/listinfo.cgi/puptcrit-driftline.org Archives: http://www.driftline.org
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