Date: Fri, 14 Apr 1995 19:01:57 -0600 From: Lisa Rogers <EQDOMAIN.EQWQ.LROGERS-AT-email.state.ut.us> Subject: Re: Phil + SB -Reply Dear Chris B, with the bits below I agree entirely. [but] You don't really mean to say that everyone learns that same thing, do you? I mean, being interested in terms of knowing what is going on and getting a hand in it is the only game in town. And cooperation can occur while simultaneously containing bits of jostling about and elbowing for position. And "enlightened self interest" or "helping others in order to benefit oneself" is not taught in every home, and, although clever, it is not always the most successful method of getting something. It depends on the circumstances, doesn't it? Just say yes and we can ring in a Mutual Admiration Festival. Lisa >>> Chris Burford <cburford-AT-gn.apc.org> 4/14/95, 10:17pm >>> .... Perhaps we should revisit this another time, but I don't think people have to be got to be nice to each other. People interact all the time, mainly cooperatively. Even the arguments are usually about how they are co-operating. ... Even if "selfish" is changed to "self-interested", people grow up learning pre-consciously that the cleverest way to be self-interested is to be interested in other people. Anyhow that's how I think of it. Regards, Chris --- from list marxism-AT-lists.village.virginia.edu --- --- from list marxism-AT-lists.village.virginia.edu --- ------------------
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