Date: Fri, 17 Jul 1998 21:54:25 -0600 From: George Trail <gtrail-AT-UH.EDU> Subject: Re: PLC: Space and death > >So I'll be moving through space to help someone die, and to help another >person face the death of a parent. "Big deal," I exclaim, aping the tough >guy model of contemporary denial, "everyone on Phillitcrit List will die >and all their loved ones too." > >How utterly human that unless we are forced -- by impending death or lost >love -- we never write with the full force of these realities behind us. >Instead we gambol in happy abstraction, which we presume does not occupy >space or time. > >Regards to all, >Eric Yost > My empathy, sir. My father died in October. My mother in March. My father died of a fall caused by exhaustion from trying to take care of my mother in late stages of Altzheimers in the hope that a drug she was taking was resulting in improvement, when in fact it made her nastier, an insomniac, and vilely loquacious. She had written letters (in 1997), in Alabama, about having met a nice fella, and where they were going to live. They were written "from" a vacation "from" the Canal Zone--1935. It is an eerie thing to read a letter written by your mother in realtime 97 when she is in alternate time before you are born and she discusses her plans to marry your father. I have known my mortality since elementary school, when I was supposed to die. I know now that time is space--that the two are inseperable, so utterly interdependent as to mock discussion. Try the opening sequence of 2001. From bone to starship in 30 seconds. Exactly. As Dylan Thomas wrote, "After the first death, there is no other." He means (meant) that literally (as well as every other way). We could not live life with the intensity that the loss of loved ones entails for long periods. We thus play in abstractions. Reality _must_ be our construct. Eliot was wrong. Too much reality in not unbearable, it is inconceivable. There is no space-time continuum. Time is the only way we have to measure space--it thus (space) is utterly temporally understood. It is indeed "inconceivable" in any extra-spatial conception. Write if it occurs to you at all that I can help. g --- from list phillitcrit-AT-lists.village.virginia.edu ---
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