Subject: Duke's response to Pakistani Medical Students/Apology Date: Sat, 15 Dec 2001 11:42:24 -0500 I still haven't heard anything back from the person who 1st alerted us to Reedy's letter---(it came to me via Cornell's Forum for Justice and Peace, a group established since 9/11), but since there was a question as to whether it was a hoax, the full email string was sent to the Cornell list. Here it is, with Reedy's apology. Before I had rec'd this I had already written to Reedy and Duke's president, expressing my alarm at the racist tenor of the first email to the students. Although it looks like this is not a hoax, I had phrased my letter to Reedy and the president as if it were--suggesting that such an unethical & racist response to prospective students coming from a Duke prof must not be true and that some action must be taken in order to stop this 'rumour.' Other members of the Cornell list wrote letters to both--none of us have rec'd any responses yet. If I hear anything else I will pass it on. Liz ---------- Forwarded message ---------- Date: Thu, 13 Dec 2001 23:13:29 From: Saadia Toor <saadiatoor-AT-hotmail.com> To: Saadia Toor <st69-AT-cornell.edu> Subject: Fwd: FW: [nypa] FW: [lahoreboyz] My apology (fwd) >From: Yasser Toor <ytoor-AT-SHANSBY.com> >To: "Saadia Toor (E-mail)" <saadiatoor-AT-hotmail.com> >Subject: FW: [nypa] FW: [lahoreboyz] My apology (fwd) >Date: Thu, 13 Dec 2001 12:57:06 -0800 > > >here > >-----Original Message----- >From: Yasser Toor >Sent: Wednesday, December 12, 2001 1:19 PM >To: Bazal (E-mail) >Subject: FW: [nypa] FW: [lahoreboyz] My apology (fwd) > > >hey amer >perhaps you would like to read professor reedy's (heartfelt i'm sure) >response below > > >-----Original Message----- >From: Rahman Asad [mailto:Rahman.Asad-AT-bcg.com] >Sent: Wednesday, December 12, 2001 10:14 AM >To: 'Imam, Abid'; 'nypa-AT-yahoogroups.com' >Subject: RE: [nypa] FW: [lahoreboyz] My apology (fwd) > > >Poor Mike Reedy... so much remorse. Little did he know how internet-savvy >us Muslims can be. > >-----Original Message----- >From: Imam, Abid [mailto:imama-AT-executiveboard.com] >Sent: Wednesday, December 12, 2001 1:10 PM >To: 'nypa-AT-yahoogroups.com' >Subject: [nypa] FW: [lahoreboyz] My apology (fwd) > > > > > -----Original Message----- > > From: Naseer, Syed > > Sent: Wednesday, December 12, 2001 1:08 PM > > To: Imam, Abid; Hicks, Evan > > Subject: FW: [lahoreboyz] My apology (fwd) > > > > > > A couple of my friends (and, no doubt, countless others) wrote to the >Duke > > professor and here is his apology... > > > > Ahmed > > > > > > >Fawaz and I wrote to the Duke professor who wrote that nasty message to > > >those Pakistani students. Just received this reply. > > > > > >---------- Forwarded message ---------- > > >Date: Wed, 12 Dec 2001 11:41:05 -0500 > > >From: Mike Reedy <mike.reedy-AT-cellbio.duke.edu> > > >To: MSAEED200-AT-cs.com, Sabahat Quadri <sabahatq-AT-threesixtydegreez.com>, > > > sulaiman <sulaiman_ijaz-AT-yahoo.com>, > > Fawaz.Chaudhry-AT-morganstanley.com, > > > tb6967 <tb6967-AT-alpha.rwu.edu>, bsattar-AT-law.harvard.edu, > > > tHe OysTeR <sopra50-AT-hotmail.com>, Altaf Husain > > ><president-AT-msa-natl.org>, > > > Hasan Ahmed Ansari <hasan-AT-sas.upenn.edu>, Carrie Syme > > ><casyme-AT-hotmail.com>, > > > Naeem Ahmed <Naeem.Ahmed-AT-morganstanley.com>, > > > ali wahla <aliwahla-AT-hotmail.com>, > > > Asad and Ayesha <asadayesha-AT-adiglobal.com> > > >Subject: My apology > > > > > >I sent the message below, headed "An apology. Perhaps I can help" to > > >the three medical student in Pakistan early Monday morning. Two of > > >them have replied with kind forgiveness. I owe deepest apology to > > >you who shared their pain on reading copies of my original bitter > > >outburst, and who replied to me in disbelieving anger. These medical > > >students were not the perceived enemy I suddenly supposed them to be > > >in my dark moment of weariness and paranoid alarm. I read that dark > > >message in near disbelief myself, hardly able to recognize my usual > > >self in it, but reinforced now against giving way to such dark > > >feelings and statements in future. I hope some measure of the peace, > > >hope and trust in life and humanity that I think is returning to me > > >can eventually return to the hearts of others who were pained and > > >offended by my outburst. > > >-mike reedy- > > > > > >********************** > > >Dear Imran, Hussain and Omer, > > >I have reconsidered what I wrote you before, and I am unhappy with > > >myself and ashamed of my words. I am ashamed by the brutality of my > > >angry words in my initial message to you, and ashamed of my poor > > >rationalizations for this in the later messages. It seems now that i > > >figuratively threw a handful of stones in your face and told you to > > >stay home and clean out the sewers. That was not a kind response to > > >your request for help in reaching out to gain professional experience > > >in the wider world. > > > > > >I think now that I felt from the start that you and your messages > > >were, with 90-99% probability, legitimate, true as represented, and > > >not efforts to deceive. I had only to think for a moment to see that > > >i can readily check up on the truth of your statements by simply > > >emailing and phoning your professors and others to establish a chain > > >of reference I can trust. > > > > > >I see now that my negative reaction came mainly from my anger and > > >frustration with the extremism and deceptiveness of the terrorists of > > >Sept 11, which seemed to destroy my personal hopes for a reasoned and > > >peaceful resolution of international conflicts. It seemed like the > > >horrible nuclear threat of the cold war all over again, a tactic that > > >resolves the argument by annihilating the disputants. I was > > >grappling with my frustration that no response of reason or kindness > > >to suicide bombers seems possible, that they can only be defended > > >against with countering violence, by quarantine and extermination of > > >their close allies and friends, and by acute mistrust of their > > >political and cultural origins. Your messages touched me in that > > >sore spot, and i fired back at you in anger and frustration, wanting > > >to make you responsible for the terror by accusing you either of > > >being terrorists yourselves, looking for an easy and deceptive > > >pathway to some vulnerable target in the world of the western infidel > > >scum, or if you were not terrorists, then of being guilty by > > >association because you shared with the terrorists a common religion, > > >as well as a nationality that had sheltered some of the schools that > > >inspired the Taliban. > > > > > >I deeply apologize for my violent words and bad manners. My shame > > >and regret has made me want to help you. I am away from Duke at a > > >scientific meeting this week, but next week when I am back again, I > > >will review your CVs, telephone or email you and any professors you > > >suggest to verify your situation and establish your references, and > > >then see if i can help you identify any labs at Duke where you might > > >work for a few months next Spring and Summer, and funds that might > > >help support your trip. > > >-- > > >-mike reedy- > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- from list postcolonial-AT-lists.village.virginia.edu ---
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